Comments on: Love Is A Verb

By: Sonali Raizada

Sonali Raizada — Wed, 02 Mar 2011 14:23:31 +0000

Love can never be equated to rush of emotion or falling in love at first sight its been always a moment of truth which resides in you for ever and ever ….miracle of memory !!! it can never fade with time or loved one being out of sight because it is never related to the physical presence……I beleive its a connection of two hearts which bring tear to your eyes and the loved one within you when you close your eyes……I am feeling it …..though apart….:-)

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By: AIZA

AIZA — Wed, 20 May 2009 15:17:39 +0000

“A lot of people equate love to that first initial rush of emotions you get when entering a relationship. After a while those feeling start to fade. Some look at that as something wrong with their relationship” I think I am one of this people…:) It is scary when you lose that initial rush of being madly in love.. and sometimes it’s hard to be loving when you go through something at the same time, ( a flashback from the past; which it did affect my current relationship but I didn’t want any of the past to remind me but It takes time I guess). And at the same times when you lose that feeling of “Infatuation or the Romantic love or the thing you call falling in love” it is scary and you’ll think you’ve lost the feeling of love but after reading your article I think I understand now that when you’re off the initial high, this is when you have to embrace and love the person even in his imperfections…

Do I make a lot of sense?

By: Sherri

Sherri — Wed, 06 May 2009 13:17:27 +0000

@ Matthew – Welcome! You make some good points and you’re right that if it were ONLY a verb the receiving of love from someone else would be difficult. The point I was trying to emphasize, like I said to Ian, is when people equate love to the initial rush of emotions they feel like something is wrong with their relationship when those feelings start to fade (which inevitably they do). But love is a choice and you can get those feelings back, IMO. Thanks for contributing to the conversation!

By: Matthew | Polaris Rising

Matthew | Polaris Rising — Fri, 01 May 2009 00:44:54 +0000

There's so much in the word "love". And there's always something more. To say love is very I don't disagree with, but also to say that it's more. If love is only things you do, then that would exclude the receiving too. And the just being with another person, which is a deeper side of love. That's a side of listening, but it's more. Without being, the phrase "you can only love someone else as much as you love yourself" makes no sense. Because when you are able to truly be with another at a deep level, loving yourself is loving another - and vice versa. Matthew | Polaris Rising’s last blog post..The story of the cat who did things differently

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By: Sherri

Sherri — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:41:03 +0000

@ Ian – This passage from Covey’s book really struck a chord with me. A lot of people equate love to that first initial rush of emotions you get when entering a relationship. After a while those feeling start to fade. Some look at that as something wrong with their relationship and leave in an attempt to find it again.

I think for a lot of people it’s not obvious that love is a choice. By choosing to love in the verb sense of the word it can result in those enjoyable feelings that most people search for.

I really appreciate your comment and I’m glad you enjoyed the post.