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		<title>By: Sherri</title>
		<link>http://www.serenejourney.com/2009/03/keeping-it-short-and-sweet-making-temporary-decisions/#comment-437</link>
		<dc:creator>Sherri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 15:23:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Ian - Welcome! I think you&#039;re right that making a decision today and expecting it to still be perfect further down the line (months/years from now) is unrealistic. Trying to remain unattached to a choice or decision can really help with going with the flow. Good to see you over here and thanks for the comment.

@ Juliet - Welcome! These temporary decisions help us to get going and it&#039;s somehow easier to start when you have the expectation that what you&#039;re choosing to do isn&#039;t permanent. It&#039;s good enough for now and we move on. 

With respect to site design, I think Daphne&#039;s comment &quot;It’s only to ourselves that our blogs look imperfect, I think. Everyone else just wants the content.&quot; is important to keep in mind. For us if a site is simple and is easy to navigate it&#039;s perfect...and good content of course. Thanks for your comment Juliet!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Ian &#8211; Welcome! I think you&#8217;re right that making a decision today and expecting it to still be perfect further down the line (months/years from now) is unrealistic. Trying to remain unattached to a choice or decision can really help with going with the flow. Good to see you over here and thanks for the comment.</p>
<p>@ Juliet &#8211; Welcome! These temporary decisions help us to get going and it&#8217;s somehow easier to start when you have the expectation that what you&#8217;re choosing to do isn&#8217;t permanent. It&#8217;s good enough for now and we move on. </p>
<p>With respect to site design, I think Daphne&#8217;s comment &#8220;It’s only to ourselves that our blogs look imperfect, I think. Everyone else just wants the content.&#8221; is important to keep in mind. For us if a site is simple and is easy to navigate it&#8217;s perfect&#8230;and good content of course. Thanks for your comment Juliet!</p>
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		<title>By: LifeMadeGreat &#124; Juliet</title>
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		<dc:creator>LifeMadeGreat &#124; Juliet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 10:54:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi

What you say is a good way to get over that hump of procrastination. Have at least something to work with and then continue.
We are on the third version of our website design!

Juliet

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi</p>
<p>What you say is a good way to get over that hump of procrastination. Have at least something to work with and then continue.<br />
We are on the third version of our website design!</p>
<p>Juliet</p>
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		<title>By: Ian Peatey</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ian Peatey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Mar 2009 08:33:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sherri

Thanks for the interesting idea! 

Seems to me that life changes constantly, so no decision is ever going to be perfect. It may be perfect in one moment of time, but that moment passes very quickly and something new might be appropriate. In this sense, it might be healthy to view all decisions as temporary. Stick with them until a new decision is needed. 

I like that way of approaching decisions and am now thinking about areas of my life where I&#039;m stuck and what temporary decision might help things along. 

Ian</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sherri</p>
<p>Thanks for the interesting idea! </p>
<p>Seems to me that life changes constantly, so no decision is ever going to be perfect. It may be perfect in one moment of time, but that moment passes very quickly and something new might be appropriate. In this sense, it might be healthy to view all decisions as temporary. Stick with them until a new decision is needed. </p>
<p>I like that way of approaching decisions and am now thinking about areas of my life where I&#8217;m stuck and what temporary decision might help things along. </p>
<p>Ian</p>
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		<title>By: Sherri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 23:55:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ FupDuckTV - Yeah exactly what I meant by it&#039;s not feasible for every decision like choosing a doctor, lawyer, buying a house, spouse etc. ;) 

@ Daphne - We find ourselves falling into the same trap. We try dividing our time between writing posts and responding to comments, reading other blogs and tweaking our site. We have to remind ourselves that producing content is most important when it comes to blogging and that&#039;s what we should be focusing our time on. Thanks so much for your feedback on the appearance of our site. We only see the to do list and what still needs to be done so it&#039;s good to get a different perspective.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ FupDuckTV &#8211; Yeah exactly what I meant by it&#8217;s not feasible for every decision like choosing a doctor, lawyer, buying a house, spouse etc. <img src='http://www.serenejourney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>@ Daphne &#8211; We find ourselves falling into the same trap. We try dividing our time between writing posts and responding to comments, reading other blogs and tweaking our site. We have to remind ourselves that producing content is most important when it comes to blogging and that&#8217;s what we should be focusing our time on. Thanks so much for your feedback on the appearance of our site. We only see the to do list and what still needs to be done so it&#8217;s good to get a different perspective.</p>
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		<title>By: Daphne</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daphne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 23:40:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sherri,

Great idea about temporary decisions to get moving. I completely identify with wanting to get the blog theme and icons and everything just right, but starting first and tweaking as we go along. I think I&#039;ve changed themes more than ten times in half a year of blogging! Your blog looks great to me, by the way. It&#039;s only to ourselves that our blogs look imperfect, I think. Everyone else just wants the content. I&#039;m trying to learn this lesson but I just love tweaking nonetheless.  :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Daphne’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JoyfulDays/~3/bp059fX0qpc/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Find Happiness in 5 Minutes&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sherri,</p>
<p>Great idea about temporary decisions to get moving. I completely identify with wanting to get the blog theme and icons and everything just right, but starting first and tweaking as we go along. I think I&#8217;ve changed themes more than ten times in half a year of blogging! Your blog looks great to me, by the way. It&#8217;s only to ourselves that our blogs look imperfect, I think. Everyone else just wants the content. I&#8217;m trying to learn this lesson but I just love tweaking nonetheless.  <img src='http://www.serenejourney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Daphne’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/JoyfulDays/~3/bp059fX0qpc/" rel="nofollow">How To Find Happiness in 5 Minutes</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: FupDuckTV</title>
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		<dc:creator>FupDuckTV</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:31:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;d maintain that there are certain things in life that need alittle perfection (or at least a very high standard of acceptance).  The two examples that come to mind...  People don&#039;t want &quot;good enough for now&quot; with Doctors or Lawyers.  Those are areas of my life where I want a high standard of practice.

Mmmm...  Cereal (Toast sucks)  ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d maintain that there are certain things in life that need alittle perfection (or at least a very high standard of acceptance).  The two examples that come to mind&#8230;  People don&#8217;t want &#8220;good enough for now&#8221; with Doctors or Lawyers.  Those are areas of my life where I want a high standard of practice.</p>
<p>Mmmm&#8230;  Cereal (Toast sucks)  <img src='http://www.serenejourney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sherri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sherri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 18:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@ Nadia - By going with the flow, you become a lot less tense and more easy going. This is something I haven&#039;t got a good grip on but I&#039;m definitely making progress! :)

@ Roger - I&#039;m glad you like the temporary idea. I know it helps us a lot to get moving forward, past the fear of doing the wrong/suboptimal thing. After a while if it&#039;s still working then we leave it if not re-evaluate and keep going.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@ Nadia &#8211; By going with the flow, you become a lot less tense and more easy going. This is something I haven&#8217;t got a good grip on but I&#8217;m definitely making progress! <img src='http://www.serenejourney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@ Roger &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you like the temporary idea. I know it helps us a lot to get moving forward, past the fear of doing the wrong/suboptimal thing. After a while if it&#8217;s still working then we leave it if not re-evaluate and keep going.</p>
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		<title>By: Roger - A Content Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roger - A Content Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 17:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sherri,

I like your idea of make temporary decisions. Also, I remind myself that making no decision is also a decision, so I really can&#039;t avoid making a decision.

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Roger - A Content Life’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.acontentlife.com/2009/03/from-aggravated-to-relaxed-in-158-seconds/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;From Aggravated to Relaxed in 158 Seconds&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sherri,</p>
<p>I like your idea of make temporary decisions. Also, I remind myself that making no decision is also a decision, so I really can&#8217;t avoid making a decision.</p>
<p><abbr><em>Roger &#8211; A Content Life’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.acontentlife.com/2009/03/from-aggravated-to-relaxed-in-158-seconds/" rel="nofollow">From Aggravated to Relaxed in 158 Seconds</a></em></abbr></p>
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		<title>By: Nadia-Happy Lotus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nadia-Happy Lotus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 14:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Sherri, 

I learned a while ago that there is no such thing as being perfect. We are all works in progress so everything basically is a journey and sometimes you just have to go with what works for now. 

Nothing is better than going with the flow! :)

&lt;abbr&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nadia-Happy Lotus’s last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://happylotus.com/2009/03/18/luck-the-beatles-and-10000-hours/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Luck, The Beatles and 10,000 Hours&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/abbr&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Sherri, </p>
<p>I learned a while ago that there is no such thing as being perfect. We are all works in progress so everything basically is a journey and sometimes you just have to go with what works for now. </p>
<p>Nothing is better than going with the flow! <img src='http://www.serenejourney.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><abbr><em>Nadia-Happy Lotus’s last blog post..<a href="http://happylotus.com/2009/03/18/luck-the-beatles-and-10000-hours/" rel="nofollow">Luck, The Beatles and 10,000 Hours</a></em></abbr></p>
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